You can't run away from it. Love eventually catches up with everyone.
It may be sooner or later. Whatever the time, however long it takes, you
can be absolutely sure someday will fall head over heels in love with
But that is not the scary part.
The part that scares most people is the fact love sometimes tend to be
blind - or so it seems.
The truth is, true love is hard to come by. Real love is rare. When you
finally find something that seems like true love, you grab it with both
hands. You invest everything you've got in it. Unfortunately, you may find
out months later that it isn't real love. You have been chasing a
That brings us back to the really scary part. Love tends to be blind.
People falling in love tend to be irrational and illogical. The love
emotion takes over. Thereafter nothing else matters.
The answer is simple. Love can be destructive. Love, blind love, can
ruin your life.
Yes, some kind of love is blind love. This kind of love is
True love or real love, is constructive and upbuilding. True love
Practical and down-to-earth
Blind love or infatuation is unrealistic, selfish, and destructive.
When falling in love, ask yourself what kind of love you are falling
into. Is it true love or infatuation? Is your love based on unselfish and
realistic expectations or on a fantasy?
Consider an example of how blind love, infatuation, can be.
Sharon was from a decent and wealthy home. She was an undergraduate who
had everything she wanted. She was astoundingly beauty and well-trained
and cultured. Understandly, suitors came in droves.
Her father's wealth poured her way so she was rich in the accepted
sense of the word. The suitors asking her hand in marriage were just as
rich. Many had an enviable social status.
However, Sharon just wasn't interested. Marriage wasn't in her books
yet. And when she decides to get married, she would marry the man of her
dreams. So she said.
Eventually, Sharon fell in love. Unfortunately, her lover was a rude
shock to everyone including her parents.
Sharon's boyfriend was a heroine smoking cult boy with an attitude. He
wasn't exactly crazy about her. But she footed his bill and paid his way
to smoking haven. So he put up with her.
Sharon, on the other hand, was madly in love. She saw something in him
she hadn't seen anywhere else. Her boyfriend, Larry, was broad shouldered,
tall, tough, raw, bold, unrelenting, and daring. He could stare death in
the face and not bart an eyelid. Her boyfriend was a real man!
Sharon was madly in love with Larry and there was no stopping her. Her
parents could not understand why their rich and well-breed daughter fell
in love with a poor heroine smoking gangster. Her friends couldn't
Can you feel Sharon's love? Do you understand why her gentle her fell
for a hoodlum?
Sharon fell in love with a dream - a bold, daring, no nonsense, dare
devil guy. He had the looks and the heart of a lion. She admired that
bravery, that manly boldness. Soon that admiration turned to love. And
there was no stopping her.
However, she's on the wrong road.
True love is not based on physical attraction. Physical attraction
eventually fails as people get older and age. What counts most is
spiritual virtues - your lover's personality.
A heroine smoking gangster will eventually get into trouble and land
himself in jail. A cultist gangster takes delight in beating people up and
formenting trouble. Sooner or later, if they get married, she may become a
Do you get the point?
Infatuation is blind, physical, destructive. True love is
clear-sighted, upbuilding, refreshing.
True love, real love, is based on realistic expectations and facts. It
is selfless and works for the good of her partner. Infatuation, on the
other hand, doesn't care about reality. It focuses on the physical and
Evaluate your feelings properly before continuing with that love
Relationships based on true love lasts forever. Relationships based on
infatuation are usually temporary and momentary. That is the very reason
why some marriages last two weeks, some seven days and still others, a
The difference is true love. Real love is true and lasts forever.
Thinking of falling in love?
Make sure it is real love. Evaluate your lovers potentials in relation
to your desire most - what is known and proven to that make relationships
Hey, fall in love the right way. It's your life. It's your future. It's
your happiness at stake.